Failure is a misunderstood friend — mistakes can “pay it forward”

Framing drives feelings.

What we repeat to ourselves and the perspective we choose largely shape how we feel about it. In particular, how we perceive failure will define our relationship with it.

Failure isn't something to avoid—it's a necessary part of growth. When you shift your perspective on mistakes, they become powerful learning tools. In therapy, we can explore how reframing failure can help you move past shame and embrace personal and professional growth.

Learn to view mistakes as stepping stones to success. Book a session with Dr Natasha Tung at Kaki Psychology, a trauma-informed clinical psychologist and couples counsellor in Prahran, Melbourne, today.

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Finding and Using your voice

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any” - Alice Walker

Finding your voice is about more than just speaking up—it’s about recognising your value and building confidence in your opinions. Dr. Natasha Tung, a trauma-informed Clinical Psychologist and Couples Counsellor in Prahran, Melbourne, discusses how assertive communication can boost self-respect and self-awareness while fostering healthier relationships. If you're ready to challenge self-doubt and step into your power, therapy can guide you in developing the skills to express your needs and desires confidently.

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Self-deception: we all do it

We tell ourselves stories to justify our actions, soften our mistakes, and protect our self-image. While this is natural, avoiding self-honesty can keep us stuck in patterns of regret, low self-esteem, and unfulfilled goals. True growth comes from confronting ourselves without crushing ourselves. In this article, we explore why we deceive ourselves, how it affects us, and how to cultivate self-awareness with compassion.

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Regret - why it’s important and how to harness its power

As the year ends, reflection often brings gratitude—but also regret. While regret can be painful, it’s also a powerful tool for self-awareness and change. Avoiding it keeps us stuck, while embracing it with curiosity helps clarify our values and guide us toward meaningful growth. In this article, we explore how to navigate regret constructively, break free from unhelpful rumination, and use it as a catalyst for self-improvement—without falling into self-judgment.

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