There's a less-discussed yet vital aspect that can significantly impact the therapeutic process: the therapist's own personal growth, deliberate practice, and self-awareness.

When looking for a therapist, it’s important to go beyond their credentials and experience. Dr. Natasha Tung, a trauma-informed Clinical Psychologist and Couples Counsellor in Prahran, Melbourne, explains why a therapist’s personal growth, self-awareness, and ability to confront discomfort can significantly impact the therapeutic process. Learn what really matters in building a therapeutic relationship that empowers you to make lasting change

We tell ourselves stories to justify our actions, soften our mistakes, and protect our self-image. While this is natural, avoiding self-honesty can keep us stuck in patterns of regret, low self-esteem, and unfulfilled goals. True growth comes from confronting ourselves without crushing ourselves. In this article, we explore why we deceive ourselves, how it affects us, and how to cultivate self-awareness with compassion.

As the year ends, reflection often brings gratitude—but also regret. While regret can be painful, it’s also a powerful tool for self-awareness and change. Avoiding it keeps us stuck, while embracing it with curiosity helps clarify our values and guide us toward meaningful growth. In this article, we explore how to navigate regret constructively, break free from unhelpful rumination, and use it as a catalyst for self-improvement—without falling into self-judgment.